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Once I realized I was guilty of living my life on the foundation of what others said was correct instead of deciding for myself, I was able to cross that line in the sand and see what would happen if I gave swinging an opportunity.
What I found out was, at least for John and I, the swinging lifestyle was a perfect fit.
When you decide to swing, you don’t necessarily have this tidy list of pros and cons that occur in succession.
It’s more of a swirling plethora of emotions as you and your partner explore a new terrain of possibilities within the relationship.
Swinging can do wonders for your relationship, so let’s start with the good news first — the pros! This is my favorite pro because it brings the topic of sex off the shelf and pushes it to the front of the line.
I can’t think of anything more loving than to be open and honest with your partner about what you desire sexually.
What John and I have found in our swinging experiences is each new partner provides us with a slightly different prism in which to see sex…
I know before I became a swinger this was a question I had.
I also realized how easy it can be to form opinions about certain lifestyle choices based on what we are told, not what we actually go out and try for ourselves.
a kaleidoscope of movements and emotions and positions in which we gain a deeper insight into each other and what we enjoy sexually.
Bringing fears to the surface may not seem like a pro, but believe me when I say that getting them out in the open is so much better than keeping fears hidden.